@WashedOutGundamPilot As far as judging how attractive other men are when you are a normal man (i.e. heterosexual man), you cannot judge based your own attraction. How I measure that is how intimidated I would be if that same man was competing with me in trying to attract the same woman.
That is, this would be my metric if I was not off the market. But I understand hypotheticals because I have the mental capacity to not say "But I did have breakfast this morning! Why are you saying I didn't?"
@houseoftolstoy My best bet is to de-weight the looks and go off of whether or not I imagine my IRL benchmark for materialistic, natural, unencumbered-by-morality woman bragging about dating the guy.
If I can picture her proudly taking him from one table to another at a wedding, I assume the guy is a solid pick for women