@JSDorn @Ottovonshitpost Regardless of the specifics, if women want to be treated like they have agency, they need to understand she is culpable for choosing to stay with a man who was not willing to give her the level of commitment she wanted.
The vast majority of these commitment problems cease to be a factor when women reserve sex only for their husbands. A man who is only interested in sex is not going to be willing to hold out until marriage. This allows a husband to be found more easily.
Harder for a woman, and why you can't treat male and female promiscuity the same exact way, though the problems with both ultimately come from the same people that have caused most of our social problems.