@sj_zero The numbers on a balance sheet are also not able to provide the full picture of the quality of your life. Housing/rent prices are a great example. Many houses in expensive areas make it so that any extra income living in an area is canceled out by just paying for your mortgage or rent.
I remember seeing a place in LA in Zillow that cost 500K. It was in terrible condition, and most certainly would need renovation and cleaning. 500K can get you a very nice place in many other areas.