https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_Rh_w5QWHI
I am glad to see videos like this, as it shows that there is pushback against the tonedeaf "man up" message that many young men get from churches and pastors who do not understand how the conditions are no longer the same and that blaming young men for not being married is ridiculous when women have inflated standards and the marriage contract is as ironclad as toiletpaper.
@houseoftolstoy in the first minute(s) the guy literally says that guys that check out are selfish. what pushback? this guys is the same as the one he is criticising.
@Justicar "He's taking his own conclusions about a small group of men and then universally applying it to all young single men." And he then states that the guy in the opening part is not offering any solutions and only shaming and blaming.
And he also states how many men in the church are unable to find women who are actually marriageable and says that men should not be taking sole blame when women are the other half of the equation.
It is far better than what we see normally in churches.
