You can get a lot of information on someone based on terminology they use. For example, the type of woman who uses the term "pick-me's" in a derogatory way is guaranteed to be an entitled bitch who is unwilling just to be nice and pleasant to men in order to attract them.

I would say it is a case of the fox and sour grapes, but in this case the fox could easily reach the grapes, but rather he is complaining that he has to pick them off the vine and chew them in order to eat them.