This is what happens when a chick tries to find a guy with a job, house, etc. rather than finding one with nothing and making a life with him.
My wife and I didn't have shit when we met. We made our life together. Such pairing facilitates a level of bonding and trust that wine aunts will never understand.
My wife and I didn't have shit when we met. We made our life together. Such pairing facilitates a level of bonding and trust that wine aunts will never understand.
Since I turned 30 I've found this to be true. Women over 30 have insane standards that guys (or me at least with a relatively new business and not a ton of stability) just can't meet. And younger girls at least don't have all their shit figured out either.
Honestly, I'm probably never going to date a "successful woman" again. I've dated a few that made really, really good money and I just don't think I can deal with a 30 year old woman who makes 6 figures again. They get all mom-like and try to do everything for you. Super annoying.
Honestly, I'm probably never going to date a "successful woman" again. I've dated a few that made really, really good money and I just don't think I can deal with a 30 year old woman who makes 6 figures again. They get all mom-like and try to do everything for you. Super annoying.
I feel for you. I got lucky. We met fairly young and stuck it out. My own opinion is that if a woman is single in her 30s, she's defective. It's not hard for women to get men, and thus, there's something wrong if she's not with one by then — she doesn't know how to mate.
I mean honestly yea. The last girl I dated made a shit load of money, and wanted me to give up my business, pay all my bills, and carry me around in her suitcase while she traveled because her career made so much money.
BUT on the same token, she resented me because her friends (also 30s single women) would get guys who would buy them trips???
Like okay you want trips I have to work?
But then you're not here with me, I'll buy the trips?
Okay?
ONE OF KELLY'S MANS BOUGHT HER A TRIP WHY DON'T YOU MAKE MORE MONEY?
Uh because you said you didn't want me to?
An actual conversation.
BUT on the same token, she resented me because her friends (also 30s single women) would get guys who would buy them trips???
Like okay you want trips I have to work?
But then you're not here with me, I'll buy the trips?
Okay?
ONE OF KELLY'S MANS BOUGHT HER A TRIP WHY DON'T YOU MAKE MORE MONEY?
Uh because you said you didn't want me to?
An actual conversation.
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@Tony @charlie_root @Humpleupagus sounds like she wanted a man like Christian Grey: super rich but somehow has an abundance of free time to just do whatever. I don't know how many of that kind of man actually exist, but they are very unlikely to be seeking a career woman.
Not surprising that she wants contradictory things, as that is the case with far too many women.
This is exactly why I dislike feminism so much. It gets women all confused