@Stahesh I’m in a similar situation with a cousin. I’ve learned to not loan money to family if you value their relationship. Either just give it to them or not. However if they’re irresponsible with money then don’t give them any. It’s exactly how welfare works.
@marlathetourist I loan to people that I know they will pay me back or else I want them to sign paper so I can later take their ass to cleaners.