Community members including family may stalk and harass the mothers, spying on them, taking photos through their windows, and trying to “catch” the mothers doing something that breaches religious requirements such as allowing their hair to show, not keeping the Sabbath, or permitting the children to speak with people outside the community.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/invisible-chains/202010/ultra-orthodox-jews-domestic-violence-and-coercive-control