I finally figured out why I was so trash at pickup
I HATE smalltalking with females.
I think females must have picked up on on my lack of interest in the conversation and took it personally.
I never understood why I had to do all this extra shit when we both know what I'm here for.
I have friends that can talk to females for HOURS and never get bored and TBH idk how they do that because that sounds exhausting.
@basedbagel If you don't like smalltalk, you could pick places like clubs which don't allow for that.
But it's not like you have to talk about the weather or engage in long tedious topics, the only purpose of smalltalk is making the girl feel safe around you and show that you can hold a normal conversation with them, without being weird or overly excited. They don't mind if you lack interest, the actual words being exchanged don't matter that much, it's just a test to your composure/status.
