@Tfmonkey this guy makes a lot of the same arguments as you about fertility rates in western countries. He even brings up womens education as being part of the issue, he also has some counterarguments, but i feel all of these points in their most simplified form would also point at womens empowerment as the root of the problem.
@MrpoopyButhole @Tfmonkey this is a really good video actually, TFM mention d it even in a recent show...or rather..celestina mentioned it from a superchat.