@basedbagel settle out of court,Divorce is filling the right forms so get the forms .put her on the defense file before she does,get the divorce book for dummies for your state.Attend AA meetings if she has said you are an Alcoholic.Child Support is determined by the state based of both income,insist on 50/50 custody.Never agree to Alimony,get a Attorney known for going to court as intimidation try to get her to settle out of court offer an immediate cash settlement if she takes your deal.