I just had an epiphany.
As a headstrong guy I always wondered why females were so quick to give up/ask for help until now.
If you're a female and you're in trouble people are more than happy to help you.
This is not the case for most men at all.
In fact I recall many times people took great pleasure in my misfortune.
So I no longer think females are stupid for acting as if the world is a safe and happy place because for them it is.
For men the world is hostile, cruel and unforgiving.