I wouldn't even worry about pleasuring your partner. Sure, mutual pleasure is a nice diversion, but it should never be the goal. That way lies simping and entitlement.
Another truth that young men in particular often struggle with is that an important source of pleasure for women is in being used. They take great pleasure in being used and being useful to a man.
Nailed it. Don't be a "needy faggot looking for dick approval" 🤣
That's the quote right there.