Sometimes the internet takes me down quite the rabbit holes. I found this particular video (not exactly current but who cares):
https://youtu.be/Oz378QPGLfc?t=101
At the timestamp, this "scholar" claims that the angel "asks" Mary if she would want to bear the Son of God, and it only happens because Mary says yes.
Read me Luke 1:26-38 (https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+1:26-38&version=NIV) and tell me if this looks like the angel "asked" Mary. No, he told her it would happen.
So clearly this man is full of shit