@basedbagel - under the current system, having a daughter is a loss. You can invest as much time, money, and effort, as you want... and it will be for nothing.

In the post collapse, you make her your property (obviously while keeping her chaste). And you transfer that property to a man at an appropriate time.

And you have about 15 years or so, to come to terms with the fact that you will likely have no further say in her future after she's married off. It's a lot like selling a beloved car.