@Stahesh

Some people say the wife should always obey the husband

If the husband asked the wife to do something that she thought was not in his best interest & she said refused to do it some of those people would say that is a bad wife

If for example the husband said I want you to get me deep fried twinkies ( the dessert food sold in grocery stores ) to eat for breakfast lunch and dinner and she said I will not do that because that is bad for you

Then some people would call that a bad wife