@basedbagel It is a woman's job to not get herself out of pocket. Especially if she is with you. Moreover, if she does, she is signaling that she is still looking and available to the next best man. The only thing preventing her is opportunity and hesitancy. Once those metrics are met/overcome, she will move on. ...They settle. They ALL settle.
@basedbagel Glad I could help. This community is the Only place were we can discuss these topics and get honest feedback; feedback that is in *our* interests; from *our* mental point of origin. Remember: women *want* drama. Especially if it is about them. The ONLY one who will lose is *You*. You will go to jail over an assault and aggravated battery charge. Do you think she will bail you out? Retain an attorney? Be a solid character witness, for you? She will distance herself from you.
@sardonicsmile Well said, I feel good about my decision now.
I had similar thoughts but the lizard brain is a powerful thing and it clouded my thinking.