@YoMomz @basedbagel thanks for sharing your story, I hope to have my own kids pretty soon. I welcome all points of view specially those that challenge my own. I am glad that you have a good kid and when you are gone your kid will hopefully live on to make great things in the world and that is what I want. I am one of those guys who is willing to walk on the mine field to have a family. For me life without the a family is just kind of an empty life without a goal or reason to continue.