@shortstories A strong pimp hand is all men ever needed... and the courage to stand up to their own government (their fellow men) so they don't emasculate him or prevent him from having authority over his wife.
I honestly don't see much of a practical difference between a killer and a murderer, it has more to do with motive than anything else, so I don't think women care that much about the details either. It's the thrill and the danger that excites them, which is fine.