@YoMomz @Tfmonkey People get most upset rather than reflective when reality contradicts a specific part of their identity: their ontology, because it destabilizes the core of what they consider to be true about the world. Identity is a broad term, and you will get a different response if you show that someone's ideas about something like a technology pertaining to their occupation is outdated than if you show that their worldview is based on a specific assumption that is false or is unpalatable.