@DoubleD If you want to help Widows and Orphans there is nothing wrong with that,if Catholic join the Knights of Columbus, but marriage is a sour grape in the US if you desire a aire to carry on your legacy and find a wife with no kids to have children financial prepare yourself with untraceable assets so when you get divorced your not financially ruined always have a plan B,get in front of any divorce serve the papers and put them on the defense and get 50/50 custody settle out of court