This is a really good video about the practical way to control your desires.
@Tfmonkey sorry TFM this is somewhat of a crap video, if you only strive for what you need then you will never achieve anything in life much less a family, I dont think that men wanting more is a bad thing even if it comes with more problems. I want a family and if I dont strive or push myself for more then what I need for myself then I will not be able to have/afford a family.
@Tfmonkey I understand, I know I am walking on a mine field. I will let you know when my legs get blown off.