I just found out that there are private child support agencies contracted by the Gov to make sure men pay up.

I also found out that judges make a commission when they rule in favor of child support.

Alot more hands in the cookie jar than I thought.

I'm NEVER having kids in the US.

@basedbagel

Stick to that and never compromise. The financial incentives are sickening, but the war underneath that one is ideological/spiritual, and always has been.

When a public school teacher asks her 7 year old student "how often do you masturbate?", and she has to ask that otherwise she gets fired from her job, the origin of that is no longer in the realm of financial motive. That has nothing to do with money. It is not an act of creating wealth or money.

@UncleIroh

> asks her 7 year old student "how often do you masturbate?"

This is beyond repulsive. I don't know what it will take for american fathers to find their dicks and I'm no longer curious.

If I have travel around the world for 20 years to find another country worth staying in I will

@basedbagel

Great effort is going into hiding this stuff. Parents are being actively lied to, both by outright lying & by ommission at all levels - teachers, school board, DOE, & especially counselors.

Children are being explicitly told to not tell which is then socially reinforced inside the class.

Most parents are still unaware of the extent of this problem, and if one parent does get a spidey sense and asks, they run straight into lies.

Lastly, mothers are often not aligned with fathers.

@basedbagel

The whole thing stinks to high heaven. Jeff Younger is the perfect IRL example of everything I've just said.

He did everything right, including being an Orthodox Christian living in Texas, and it still happened.

Don't ever have kids in the US.