Just thinking: Women will readily fuck men they are actually sexually attracted to but NEVER consider committing to them.
"Getting the girl" means she does not actually like you (sexually; because women do NOT see men as human beings with feelings) thus the litany of excuses about "not wanting to rush things", because she is "looking for something serious".
One of my hardest redpills about female nature was hearing from a friend about how his German shepherd bitch who was in heat escaped by jumping from his 1st floor balcony to mate with a dog whose scent she'd caught.
No concerns about injury, just the need to fuck.
It stuck in my head and wouldn't go away, and when I started to see that same behavior in women who are in "sport-fucking mode", I couldn't unsee it.