@Tfmonkey - ...no longer care what others thought of me.

Ironically enough, it was falling in love as a blue-pilled simp. She was all that mattered, and nothing else did anymore. Of course, she eventually did me very dirty, time and again. 🙄😮‍💨

But I guess you could say, that it was finding something that (ill-advised or not) mattered more to me than myself.

Hope that helps your formulation. 🍻