@YoMomz Well, Now you know the ruse and to never drop your guard with females. ANY female.

"Warfare is based on deception. Hence, when we are able to attack, we must seem unable; when using our forces, we must appear inactive; when we are near, we must make the enemy believe we are far away; when far away, we must make him believe we are near."
- Sun Tzu, Art Of War