The only solution i can think of with violent women is to keep some pepper spray on you.
It may not stop her but it will give you enough time to GTFO.
But If she lives with you... Yikes
So bizarre that you have to protect yourself from such frail creatures.
Without witnesses why do you think pepper spray will protect you from police charging you?
She'll just lie, play victim and say you started it.
Absolutely but I'm looking for the least shitty solution.
If you're dealing wit some amber heard type of hoe better to mace her than get your finger cut off or knock her out.
It's a no-win situation but IMO you have a better chance in court if she has no marks or bruises.
I see. Depends on the situation. If it's a rando in public then just run. Better than any alternative. If you can't then whip out the phone to record, call out for others to help as witnesses and do what you can to de-escalate without knocking her godamn teeth out.
If it's private with someone you know, then bad luck. Record if you can, GTFO if you can and then end the situation with that bitch permanently asap.
I had a friend who was married to a violent abusive woman. I witnessed it twice, really brutal. He never fought back which only made her more angry and abusive.
Of course everyone advised him to divorce, which he did eventually when it got too much.
Leaving is the only real solution.
My heart goes out to your friend.
I'm not a tough guy but I don't understand how guys can put up with that shit on a regular basis.
Maybe it's because i don't have kids but for me as soon as you get physical that crosses the line.
