@TinyFern @ArdainianRight @Tfmonkey @WashedOutGundamPilot a fat woman with tattoos indicates poor impulse control and a low time preference, both of which are reflective of her character. So the comparison is not the same. Men like me are also not a fan of the "single-digit body count." If I am to believe that.
@TinyFern @ArdainianRight @Tfmonkey @WashedOutGundamPilot >A man who doesn't invest the time and effort into acquiring high status education and employment is also demonstrating low time preference, no?
No. That is not the same thing. That is a narrow definition for what a man needs to do to be a good husband and father. Yes, he should not be shiftless and lazy, but having a "high status" occupation is not as critical or fully indicative of a man's character as you are making it out to be.
I would say the same thing about a woman being chubby, having a couple of tattoos, or having a handful sexual partners who were previous boyfriends.