@VooDooMedic >a little autism is kinda hot

No it's not. It has only been a hindrance to any success in the dating world, and my own success was in spite of it rather than because of it. Sure, this gold digger might be fine with a sperg that makes money, but when she finds out that living with such a guy is not going to be zany like having your own personal Sheldon Cooper, she will take back that idea.