@sardonicsmile This is a sad case for any man trapped in the "need experience to get experience" state. For men like this, the only hope is fake it until you make it. Do not tell women about your lack of experience. That is only going to make things worse.

Ideally, you would not have to do that, but the world we live in is not fair, and women are not the pure, empathetic beings they are made out to be.

The only question to ask is if it is worth the effort for men. Often, the answer is no.