@Tfmonkey I don't remember where I heard this: They want us (men) to Only find solace, comfort, validation in women. By yielding to women, we inadvertently give then control. It takes Monk levels of discipline of thought, to overcome the urge to seek refuge in those creatures; they will only destroy you.
@sardonicsmile the guys got it. He just needs to stop obsessing with women and just go live his life and find happiness for himself. Maybe women come, maybe they don't. So what?