Men are unaware and think if girls chose them, then they must be better Men. This is patently False, wishful thinking, delusion, and placing their self-worth on how the female sex's assement.
They cannot accept Truth, so schizophrenic stories about women "not knowing what they want" and other non intuitive takes are posited so women are NOT Revealed for the EVIL people they Truly are.
@sardonicsmile If by evil you mean they have a moral decision-making framework that goes against aspects of many males' moral frameworks then I will agree with you.
So many problems between the sexes could be solved by dissolving the lie of the sexes being equivalent.
If a woman choses you it is because she respects you less and knows you will not fight back against her dehumanizing, manipulation, and using you. Women know at the outset which Man in the room is the boyfriend/husband/attack dog/slave material.