I think you made a lot of people mad not just one person
Probably you could describe the same point you are trying to make but use less rude words if you do not want to get banned
For example replace "retardation" with code words like "unwise decisions" or "unwise actions" would reduce the chance of getting banned
There are many more similar examples I could probably point out in how you word things
@shortstories you're right I should be less harsh