@ButtWorldsMan The "get out of the doghouse" card will never work. You think she's going to just suddenly stop being mad because you told her she agreed to it on a sticker chart? She's going to keep at it and make excuses why you can't use it here, like an insurance company. Or she'll just keep it inside to hit you with it a few months later, so you'll just be delaying it as it gathers strength like a Spirit Bomb.
She’ll let him out of the doghouse for one thing then just start bitching at him for something else. Then tell him “ you got out for that, not this new thing “
His whole life with her is a doghouse. Look at her psycho smile. Total sadist.
This is why most guys are super relieved to get divorced even if they’re completely stressed out and disillusioned. They won’t have someone abusing them every day.
