@ButtWorldsMan Remember the "Debt Free Virgins without Tattoos" term? This is why the Debt Free part is important. Debt is a liability, and it affects your overall financial status. And with her having 100K in what is probably a fluff degree, there is no way that she is all that intelligent and thus a bad marriage prospect.
And before I hear "men are smarter than women," there is still an intelligence range for both men and women, and choosing a woman on the left end the bell curve is foolish.
@houseoftolstoy @ButtWorldsMan It's ideal to find as high an IQ in a female as possible for the possibility of intelligent children, yes. Males are smarter than females on average, but I don't see how that is relevant to this discussion. If she has extremely intelligent parents or grandparents but turned out to be only average or even slightly below, but she has other factors such as a history of good immunity or she comes with connections to a family business, lower intelligence might be okay.
@houseoftolstoy @ButtWorldsMan Then they are in error in their thinking.