@ButtWorldsMan The "get out of the doghouse" card will never work. You think she's going to just suddenly stop being mad because you told her she agreed to it on a sticker chart? She's going to keep at it and make excuses why you can't use it here, like an insurance company. Or she'll just keep it inside to hit you with it a few months later, so you'll just be delaying it as it gathers strength like a Spirit Bomb.