@Tfmonkey I was listening to your show and you talk about how you need to have a well rounded personality and connect with peopl on their level and not make one thing your entire personality, I try to make friends with my normie coworkers but I often find a barrier when it comes to sports, I dont find it imteresting to root for a sport team, have you had an issue like this or how do you takle this situation when you are out with them and they start talking about sports and I am completly lost
I use to be a huge sports ball fan till I realized it was just the "Circus". These people are looking for a sense of belonging / tribe and don't understand that is the reason why they enjoy it.
What are you hobbies? Its probably better to find friends in those groups then deal with normie coworkers.
@Chimi_Chuang_Tzu @Tfmonkey I enjoy playing si gle player games, alone, dont have much time for friends honetly but I am easy to get along with, making friends for me is something thay just comes easy to me, but when it comes to sport teams an players I am lost, and you cant hide from stuff like this cuz you will eventually find yourself having to be in a some kind of team celebreation or something where you will be with a group of people and they start talking about sports
@37712 @Tfmonkey
Same here man. I really never got into the online gameplay. Mostly due to knowing I would be completely sucked in.
Growing up I was too much of a nerd for the jocks and too much of a jock for the nerds. It was constant trying to fit in and bouncing off personality's. I found that if you want to fit in you need to expand your "interests". By interests I mean you don't have to enjoy the knowledge gained per say but enjoy using it to further your goals. Yayyy Touchdown!