@sardonicsmile I have made it a personal rule not to help women in my life unless it can negatively impact me, so for example I dont help women in the office to carry heavy stuff I just tell them that I am busy but I would also not open the door for them, I will at most hold the door open if I would do the same for someone of the same sex.
@Scubbie @sardonicsmile last time I checked air is free but I do tend to help the elderly regardless, it is the young woman that I will not help to any extent further than I would a man.