RIP my coworker who married a Mexican single mom from online dating. "I was the first and only guy she talked to, she said. We fell in love right away."

And then: "She was in a hurry to get married because of her citizenship status, but she's really self-conscious about it, reassuring me she isn't marrying me just for that."

How it's going, one month after the wedding: "She said she might quit her job and stay at home. I don't know if I can afford that."