@DoubleD @Mongoliaboo @Pain66 - Sadly, examples are a continuing requirement.
The best anyone can do, is keep them to a minimum. But there's always gonna be someone saying "It'll be different this time".
It's correct to point out their error before they make it, as they're making it, and after the results of their error go to shit. Is it harsh? Sure, it's harsher than what's currently socially acceptable.
If there's any way to soften things, it's to focus on the error, rather than the man. 🫡
@YoMomz @Mongoliaboo @Pain66 The most compassionate thing you can do for someone who is stalwart in their folly is to warn them and then allow them to fail.