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I see no nobility in this sacrifice, no honor in this servitude.
Avoid them, I say—shun them as one shuns a plague-ridden corpse. Let the widows weep alone, let the divorced languish in their liberty. A single mother, by any path she treads, is a vortex of need, a sinkhole of lost potential. I declare this truth: to entangle oneself with such a soul is to court ruin. Let them stand as monuments to their own fates—untouched, unclaimed, and utterly forsaken.

@DoubleD
The method of her solitude matters not; the weight of her existence remains unchanged. Whether her mate lies cold in the earth or walks free among the living, the yoke she bears is the same—a chain forged not of iron, but of obligation and regret.

@DoubleD
A widow, they say, is ennobled by tragedy, her solitude thrust upon her by fate’s cruel hand. A divorced woman, they sneer, bears the stain of her own failure, her union sundered by choice or weakness. Yet I see through this veneer of judgment, this petty moral posturing. A single mother is a single mother still—her spawn cling to her skirts, her resources sapped, her spirit tethered to a past she cannot unmake.

@DoubleD
These men whisper of love, of companionship, yet their choices betray a masochism I scarce comprehend. To court a single mother—be she widowed or divorced—is to embrace a burden clad in the guise of virtue. And what distinction do they draw, these fools, between the widow and the cast-off bride? None exists worthy of note.

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@Justicar @Stahesh @Zeb Thanks for your input everyone.

So far in my considerations, there is no tangible benefit to marrying a widow with a child over a single mother with a child since her female nature will treat both situations the same: a new provider with different genes than her offspring.

The society's strictures on property rights in the family would largely dictate how much control you'd have to raise the step child as well.

@Zeb It is a good point that she could just lie, and it becomes more of a risk the less access you have to family records.

@Zeb @RodrickSage Good cath Zeb indeed these people thinking Trump Is so sort of saviour Is so pathetic.