@Tfmonkey I was listening to your show and you talk about how you need to have a well rounded personality and connect with peopl on their level and not make one thing your entire personality, I try to make friends with my normie coworkers but I often find a barrier when it comes to sports, I dont find it imteresting to root for a sport team, have you had an issue like this or how do you takle this situation when you are out with them and they start talking about sports and I am completly lost
I use to be a huge sports ball fan till I realized it was just the "Circus". These people are looking for a sense of belonging / tribe and don't understand that is the reason why they enjoy it.
What are you hobbies? Its probably better to find friends in those groups then deal with normie coworkers.
Same here man. I really never got into the online gameplay. Mostly due to knowing I would be completely sucked in.
Growing up I was too much of a nerd for the jocks and too much of a jock for the nerds. It was constant trying to fit in and bouncing off personality's. I found that if you want to fit in you need to expand your "interests". By interests I mean you don't have to enjoy the knowledge gained per say but enjoy using it to further your goals. Yayyy Touchdown!
@Chimi_Chuang_Tzu @Tfmonkey I enjoy playing si gle player games, alone, dont have much time for friends honetly but I am easy to get along with, making friends for me is something thay just comes easy to me, but when it comes to sport teams an players I am lost, and you cant hide from stuff like this cuz you will eventually find yourself having to be in a some kind of team celebreation or something where you will be with a group of people and they start talking about sports