@Tfmonkey I was listening to your show and you talk about how you need to have a well rounded personality and connect with peopl on their level and not make one thing your entire personality, I try to make friends with my normie coworkers but I often find a barrier when it comes to sports, I dont find it imteresting to root for a sport team, have you had an issue like this or how do you takle this situation when you are out with them and they start talking about sports and I am completly lost

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It does take a little bit of effort, but think of it like an investment in your interpersonal skills. It will make them like you more if you are a good listener and you take an interest in what they like. Yes, it is boring to listen to them talk about X, but to them, listening to you talk about Y is boring. You have to meet them on their level as TFM said if you want a relationship with them in one or more areas. I hope this helps.

@DoubleD @Tfmonkey ok except that I am a level above that, I dont hate sports I enjoy playing sports I just dont enjoy watching someone else play sports so, I know the game and the rules but when it comes to talking about players and who is they new guy they hired for x position on team B and I like team A and you team sucks bc it is not team A, shit like thay is so fucking retarded to me. These dumb ppl know all about each of the players but dont even know who their senator or governor is

@37712 @Tfmonkey Then don't talk about those things. Let them talk. You can ask questions to get them talking. Remember your objective is to have a relationship, not become one of them.

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