The biggest red pill i ever got was that women can't self-actualize.
I can't even imagine living like that.
How can you appreciate art, literature or architecture?
It still blows my mind
@sardonicsmile @basedbagel I agree, especially family.
A man should build his life like a castle, able to keep out who he doesn’t want in it, and able to protect those he does, starting with himself.
@southpole21 @sardonicsmile Spot on!
I keep my normie family on a timer.
15 minutes for weekdays
30m-1h on weekends.
I know I don't have much time with them so I don't want to cut them off but they can't get in the way what I value most so for me it's a good compromise.
@sardonicsmile You know it's funny you say that I remember my dad telling me that and thinking:
"what a bitter boomer, thinking everything is transactional."
While I've seen a few exceptions I can't help but agree.
It's kind of sad but I used it to my advantage back in the day.
Being the go to guy/connector for people and bartering skills is a great way to grow a social circle of useful people.
@sardonicsmile @basedbagel I will admit, even to this day it is sad to know as a man that people will only gravitate towards me if I’m of extremely high status and usefulness. And when you’re useful and valuable people will try to ride your coat tails and get a piece of your usefulness to bring themselves up. The worse part is when you’re no longer useful, you’re disregarded like a used paper towel just thrown in the garbage. Humans are just naturally opportunistic, and selfish.
I think the reason it's sad is because you were fed lies.
Maybe I'm weird but I found it inspiring.
I always thought something was wrong with me but it just turns out I wasn't useful to anyone.
I like that if I get serious I can turn my life around.
@basedbagel women can appreciate what pretending to care about those things can get them - jobs, attention, status, money
It’s sexist of you to suggest they can’t appreciate such things
😂
Another thought about this: since women can’t self realize, there’s no sense of working towards. They also don’t conceive of the future, or past. Everything is about the present.
I think this is a part of destructive behavior and policy because there’s no regard for tomorrow or anyone else. It’s all about me, now, always. So there’s no respect for the future or how others will be affected.
It’s just looting whatever you can. It’s everyone’s fault for allowing it.
Keen observation @southpole21 but TBH I don't mind it.
It's refreshing to have a bitch bring you down to earth when you've got alot on your mind.
It's just WAY out of hand these days.
@southpole21 @basedbagel - Females only having a present... 🤔
Under actual Patriarchy, this trait serves a very useful purpose. When they have full rights, it only results in broken families (and all the problems that come with that).
It's the trait that facilitates mental/emotional submission, when the facts of physical reality dictate it. The flip side being, that females are completely unreliable. But they were never meant to be relied upon.
Cheers. 🍻
@YoMomz @southpole21 @basedbagel yeah I agree, females don’t have to be useful in society because they’re not expected too. They’re just valued from existing, so when they have power and rights they only do what benefits them, since they’re not the ones that have to build and contribute to a society. Women only care about the present and the down side of that is they’re extremely short sighted and rarely think about long term consequences. While men can anticipate the past, present and future.
@basedbagel The biggest Red Pill I ever got was understanding that MOST of the people who I thought meant the world to me; I did not mean Anything to them. I was totally unmemorable to them. As a man, you are useless, unless you are providing value to someone else and once that flow of resources ends, so does your existence, to them.