@sardonicsmile If they have a problem with you standing up for yourself, they have just told you that they're your enemy.
@Mongoliaboo is right
@sardonicsmile People are tribal
If they see themselves in you they will co-sign whatever it is that you do no matter how little sense it makes.
If they don't then they pretend you don't exist.
This is why southerners cosign treason, black people cosign crime, and muslims cosign terrorism.
Ingroup bias is a helluva drug
@shortstories
True but let's be honest if they were in your group you'd take the risk and spend them anyway
@Mongoliaboo @sardonicsmile