@sardonicsmile I have made it a personal rule not to help women in my life unless it can negatively impact me, so for example I dont help women in the office to carry heavy stuff I just tell them that I am busy but I would also not open the door for them, I will at most hold the door open if I would do the same for someone of the same sex.
@37712 @sardonicsmile Air cost $2 you can use a credit card or quarters not cash,and I was approached by this elderly white women while pumping gas ,the white night lizard brain kicked in so offered assistance,Something familiar this women I had seen the week before and another man was assisting her same station, made me think there was a card reader on the air pump and she was part of a theft ring refused to pay but put in the air
@Scubbie @sardonicsmile yeah, air is free in the states I visit. I would not pay, I would say that I got no money, sorry, and then leave.