@YoMomz @VooDooMedic Explore why you want your friends to fail to be happy yourself, and it likely sparks from an unspoken competition you're holding in your mind against your friend to see who the "best" is, and you feel you're losing.
That competition doesn't exist. You're making yourself suffer unnecessarily.
@Tfmonkey @YoMomz you're 100% right, but I am competitive, how do I stop this feeling towards my closest friend? Or is it simply a mindset problem that I need to correct?
@VooDooMedic @YoMomz punch yourself in the dick 100 times and challenge your friends to beat your score.
There, do you feel like a winner?
@Tfmonkey @YoMomz so the competition with others is a misnomer? Like in general? I shouldn't be trying to compete with others? I should just try and best my own personal bests?
@Tfmonkey @YoMomz no...