I think a lot of 'gender discourse' is fundamentally flawed because 90% of people have internalized a women-first gynocentric worldview that sees men as nothing more than variables in a "female fulfillment index".
See the most common pivot women will make when they become """Trad""": "Porn, Video Games, and Drugs are Ruining Men!!!"
They aren't wrong, all of these things are destructive vices that are terrible for society, but all their rhetoric around them are just post hoc justifications because these things reduce men's investment and attention in women writ large.
Video games bad because it's less time/money men can invest in women
Porn bad because it gives men an outlet for sexual energy that isn't at the mercy of women's whims
They don't want to ban porn, drugs, and video games in an effort to push men into acting on their ambitions in a fulfilling and constructive manner, but because these vices are reducing the utility and resources they can extract from men on a societal-wide scale.
"It doesn't matter why they support this, who cares, as long as we get the backing/votes for it!" , some will say.
Maybe, I don't know.