@Mongoliaboo
I hear you but this was my best friend so I was at his 🏠 everyday and sometimes they didn't know I was there.
Here were some 🗝️ takeaways:
⏺️They argued from time to time but unlike my house there was NO yelling/talking over each other.
⏺️His parents allowed him privacy and didn't remove 🔒 on his door and go through his shit randomly.
⏺️ZERO violence of any kind. I got spanked/slapped alot and once my mom pulled a knife on my dad...
⏺️They asked their kids for input
and treated them with common human decency. Rarely any insults because they had a bad day
⏺️This one shocked me the most:
They genuinely ENJOYED each other's company and got homesick if they were away for long. 😲
I recall distinctly on my 1st 3 day field trip as a kid everyone but me cried on the way there because they missed their fam.
I cried on the way back knowing I was headed back to a warzone 😂
Didn't realize that was abnormal till ~10 yrs later lol no privilege 4 me
@Mongoliaboo
@UncleIroh
That sure is one unsettling picture.
> I can't name a single family member who wasn't a net negative for me.
Damn and I thought I had it bad... I at least get some $ rarely but anything intangible like emotional support FORGET IT.
>Betrayal is the worst of all crimes because it comes from those you love, and those wounds almost never heal.
I know judgement day is coming but rn on erth betrayal is just too OP
@Mongoliaboo @shortstories @sardonicsmile