@YoMomz @Tfmonkey

Michael Langone, Steven Hassan, Ted Patrick wrote books about cult deprogramming and did not say to join a specific major religion in the books I read

Unlike some badly written books by so called Christians that say their doctrine does not agree with the Bible therefor the group is bad but do not correctly represent the Bible

Sex abuse is a theme in cults

I have a lot more ideas to your question but I do not have time to discuss it now